The IRS says to allow about 7 weeks for your letter. During tax season, January 15 to April 30, or if you applied from outside the U.S., allow 9 to 11 weeks. If nothing arrives by then, contact the IRS.
An ITIN does not last forever. If it is not used on a federal tax return for three tax years in a row, it expires on December 31 of that third year. ITINs issued before 2013 that were never renewed have already expired. You renew with the same Form W-7, checking the renewal box. If you later get a Social Security number, use the SSN and do not renew the ITIN.